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ok so I know everyone says virgo + virgo is either the best thing ever or a complete nightmare and I'm here to tell you... it can absolutely be the first one lol
been with my virgo partner for almost 3 years now and honestly it just keeps getting better. wanted to share what I think makes it work because I never see positive posts about this combo
the big thing for us is that we both ACTUALLY communicate. like we're both that person who will replay a conversation in their heads for days if something felt off - but instead of stewing we just... say it. two virgos who both need things to be right means we've had to get really good at talking through stuff
also the shared standards thing is real. my apartment has never been cleaner lol. we have the same expectations about how we want to live which removes SO much friction
the hardest part honestly was early on when we'd both go critical at the same time. two virgos being picky about different things simultaneously is a lot. we had to learn to take turns lol
anyone else in a virgo + virgo relationship? would love to hear what's working for you
this is so wholesome!! I always hear people say same-sign relationships are doomed but this gives me hope
Love seeing this! Virgo-Virgo pairings get a bad rep but the shared Mercury rulership is actually a huge advantage. Two people wired the same way for communication and problem-solving can build something really solid together.
The 'going critical at the same time' thing you mentioned is the classic challenge - when both partners are noticing flaws simultaneously, it can spiral. But the fact that you've developed that self-awareness already puts you ahead of most couples, same sign or not.
The other thing that tends to make same-sign Virgo work is having enough chart differences elsewhere (moon, rising, Venus) to create some contrast. Do you know if you two have different moon signs?
omg yes!! I'm a virgo sun with a scorpio moon and he's virgo sun with a gemini moon which I think does help - we process emotions really differently even though our logical side is basically the same person lol
the 'taking turns being picky' thing sent me 😂 that is such a virgo solution to a virgo problem
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