fixed sign standoff lol. youre both stubborn just about completely different things, she digs in on ideas and you dig in on stability

once I realized my aquarius coworker wasnt actually trying to undo my work she just genuinely enjoys rebuilding things, it stopped feeling personal

the thing that changed everything for me was asking for the why before reacting

like instead of but we just built this, I started saying whats the problem youre trying to solve. half the time theres a real one I hadnt noticed and half the time she talked herself out of it while explaining lol

also try pitching a pilot instead of a rollout?? my aquarius lead loves experiments so framing it as lets test this on one project first scratches the same itch without me having to redo everything