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ok so I'm a taurus sun and just started seeing this cancer guy and things are going really well so far??
we're both homebodies, love food, super affectionate... feels almost too easy lol
but I know every pairing has its challenges. what should I be aware of before we get too deep? like what are the typical rough spots for taurus + cancer?
would rather know now than be blindsided later honestly
cancer here married to a taurus! honestly the biggest thing is communication styles during conflict
when we're upset, I want to TALK about it immediately. like process every feeling out loud. my taurus husband? needs time to think first. he shuts down if I push
took us a while to figure out that I need to give him space and he needs to come back to the conversation within a day. its a balance
as a fellow taurus... watch out for the stubbornness thing. both signs can dig their heels in SO hard during disagreements
like neither of you will want to budge first lol. someone has to learn to bend a little or you'll be at a standstill forever
the moodiness!! cancers can have big mood swings and as a taurus you might not always understand why. just know its not about you usually
also cancers remember EVERYTHING. every little thing you said three months ago lol. so be mindful of that
omg the remembering everything thing 😭 I've already noticed that actually. he brought up something I said on our second date and I was like wait what
the stubbornness makes sense too... we're both pretty set in our ways. good to know to work on that early
thank you all this is super helpful!!
taurus + cancer is honestly one of the best matches imo!!
but one thing no one mentioned - watch out for getting TOO comfortable too fast. you both love cozy domestic vibes so much that you might accidentally skip important relationship milestones or hard convos because everything just feels so... nice?
like my cancer and I moved in together way earlier than we probably should have just bc we were already spending every night together anyway. worked out for us but looking back we maybe should have had more independence in the beginning
also neither of you likes change lol. so if something needs to shift in the relationship, you might both just... avoid it until it becomes a bigger issue. just something to be aware of!
taurus here married to a cancer for 3 years now so maybe i can help lol
biggest thing for us was learning that when he gets moody and withdraws, it's not about me. like at ALL. i used to take it so personally and get stubborn about it which just made everything worse
now when he needs space i just let him know im here and go do my own thing. he always comes back around and honestly the makeup conversations are always really good bc cancers are SO emotionally intelligent once they feel safe
also the getting comfortable too fast thing is real but honestly... is that even a bad thing?? we moved in together after 6 months and it was the best decision ever. taurus + cancer domestic life is unmatched. we literally just cook together and watch movies and its perfect
only real watch out imo is make sure you actually SAY when something bothers you. we both tend to hold stuff in and then it explodes later. weekly check-ins saved us honestly
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