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I know I know, everyone says two scorpios together is a disaster waiting to happen lol. my friends literally staged an intervention when I started dating another scorpio
but honestly?? we're in year 3 and I feel like we understand each other on a level I've never experienced with any other sign
here's what I've figured out actually makes it work:
we don't try to dominate each other. I think that's the big one. two scorpios fighting for control = nightmare. but when we both decide to just... trust each other? it's like we finally feel safe in a way neither of us have before
also the honesty thing. scorpios can smell a lie from miles away, so we literally never bother trying to sugarcoat things. we just say the truth and deal with it. it's intense but it cuts out SO much of the games and passive aggressive stuff I've had in other relationships
the hard part is when we both go silent at the same time. like two scorpios in a standoff is... something lol. we have a rule now that whoever reaches out first wins and the other one has to actually talk about it
anyone else in a scorpio + scorpio relationship? would love to hear if your experience is different
This tracks perfectly with what I see in same-sign pairings. Two Scorpios share the same Mars/Pluto rulership, so you're essentially running on the same energetic frequency.
The power dynamic thing you mentioned is the crux of it. Scorpio's shadow is control - both of you have that instinct, and if it becomes a battle it can be destructive. But when two Scorpios consciously choose vulnerability with each other, there's a depth of merger that's almost unparalleled in the zodiac.
The silent standoffs are classic Scorpio self-protection. Your rule about whoever reaches out first is honestly a really mature workaround for a pattern that can calcify into weeks of cold war with less self-aware Scorpios. Sounds like you've both done some real work on yourselves.
the staged intervention from friends is SENDING ME because same thing happened to me when I told my mom lol
your point about honesty is so real. I dated a libra before my current scorpio partner and the indirectness drove me insane. with another scorpio it's like we just skip the whole dance
genuinely never considered scorpio x scorpio could work but this is changing my mind a little?? the emotional depth aspect sounds incredible even if the intensity is a lot
the 'whoever reaches out first wins' rule is so smart I'm stealing this for my own relationship lmao
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