scorpio and aquarius friendship - is it just me or is this actually really hard?
so I'm a scorpio and my best friend is an aquarius and honestly sometimes I feel like we're speaking different languages lol
like I want to have deep emotional convos and she's always off on some random tangent about a new hobby or idea she's excited about?? don't get me wrong I love her creativity but sometimes I need her to just... be present with me?
and she says I'm too intense sometimes which like... fair. but also ouch?
any other scorpio-aquarius friendships out there? how do you make it work
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This is such a classic fixed sign dynamic! Scorpio and Aquarius are both fixed signs, which means you're both incredibly loyal but also... stubborn in how you approach connection.
Scorpio craves emotional depth and intimacy. Aquarius values intellectual stimulation and independence. Neither is wrong - they're just different languages of love and friendship.
The fact that you've stayed friends shows something is working. Maybe try meeting in the middle: ask her to schedule dedicated 'deep talk' time, and let her have space to be her scattered brilliant self the rest of the time.
aquarius here with a scorpio bestie and honestly same but from the other side lmao
I had to learn that when she wants to talk about feelings it's not optional. like she NEEDS that connection. and she had to learn that when I zone out it's not because I don't care, my brain just works differently
we've been friends 12 years now so it can totally work
omg the 'too intense' comment hit hard. my aqua friend said the same thing to me once and I cried about it for like 3 days lol
but honestly I think they don't mean it in a bad way? they just process differently
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