Community Discussions
Spiritual Community Forum
Connect with fellow seekers, share your experiences, and explore the mysteries of astrology, tarot, and numerology together.
Categories
Topics
Connect with fellow seekers, share your experiences, and explore the mysteries of astrology, tarot, and numerology together.
ok so there's this aquarius guy I've been talking to for about a month and I genuinely cannot tell if he likes me or if he's just... like that with everyone??
I'm a sag sun and honestly I love how unpredictable he is but also it's driving me crazy. like we'll have the BEST conversations and then he goes completely radio silent for days and I never know what to expect
my friends keep saying sag + aquarius is actually a great match but idk. is this a good idea or am I setting myself up for confusion lol
sag here who dated an aquarius for two years and I 100% get the confusion
the radio silence thing threw me off SO much at first. I kept thinking I did something wrong. turned out he literally just needed to recharge and was never actually upset with me, just... offline for a bit lol
what helped was I stopped reading into the silences and started just sending him memes during them instead of worried texts. took the pressure off both of us and he'd always come back energized. honestly really good match once you get that about them
aquarius here and I feel called out lol
we genuinely don't mean anything by the disappearing. it's honestly not about the other person, I just get so deep in my own head sometimes that reaching out feels like too much effort even though I care?? I know that sounds bad
if he comes back enthusiastic after the quiet periods, that's the real sign. aquarius tends to come back fully charged and ready to pick up where things left off
ok this is genuinely so helpful to hear from both sides
@aqua_wanderer the 'not about you, just offline' thing is exactly what I needed to understand. I've been spiraling every time he goes quiet and it's been exhausting lol
I'm gonna try to stop catastrophizing and just... let him be an aquarius
ok sag here who dated an aquarius for almost two years and honestly this thread is giving me flashbacks lol
the radio silence thing is SO real but here's what changed everything for me: I stopped filling the gap with anxiety and started using that time for my own adventures. like he goes quiet → I book a solo trip or dive into a project I've been putting off
what ended up happening is we both came back to each other genuinely excited about stuff we'd been doing separately, and the conversations got even better?? sag + aquarius can be electric when you're both living your own full lives and not waiting on each other
you're not setting yourself up for confusion, you're setting yourself up for a relationship that actually gives you room to breathe. which honestly as a sag you probably need anyway lol
You must be signed in to reply to this topic.
Sign In to Reply