so my mom is a virgo and I'm a sagittarius and growing up it felt like we spoke two completely different languages

she wants routine, plans, the practical step by step way of doing literally everything. I just want to go with the flow and figure it out as I go. every family trip growing up was a negotiation lol

what's wild is now that I'm older I actually get why she's like that and I think I've picked up a little more structure from her without even realizing it. anyone else have a virgo parent as a sagittarius kid? did it get easier as you got older