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ok so I've seen a lot of posts about how libra and capricorn are supposed to be this impossible match and I just want to offer a different perspective because my partner and I have been together 3 years and honestly it keeps getting better??
I'm a libra sun, he's a capricorn sun. on paper we should be constantly butting heads - I want harmony and social stuff, he wants structure and quiet ambition. and yes, early on it was... a lot.
but here's what I think makes it work for us:
we both actually respect each other's approach even when it's different. cap people are SO consistent and reliable - as a libra I genuinely find that so grounding. and he says my ability to see all sides of a situation helps him not get too tunnel-visioned on one path.
we have the same values underneath all the surface differences. like we both care about fairness, doing things properly, being taken seriously. we just show it differently.
we gave each other time to adjust. the first 6 months were bumpy ngl. but we stuck with it and figured out each other's rhythms.
anyone else in a libra-cap pairing? would love to hear how others navigate it
this is so refreshing to read!! I'm a libra and I've been talking to a cap guy and everyone keeps telling me to run lol
the part about shared values underneath the surface differences really resonates. like we both want security and fairness, just in different ways
omg I needed this post today. libra rising here (with a cap moon?? make it make sense) and I always feel so conflicted about this pairing when I read about it
how long did it take before things felt natural between you two?
honestly like 8-9 months before it felt truly easy? the turning point was when we had a real talk about what we each needed to feel secure. once we stopped assuming the other person thought the same way we did, everything shifted
@StarryNightMeg cap moon actually sounds really compatible with libra rising imo - you probably have more cap energy than you realize!
3 years and growing!! goals honestly. my cap ex and I didn't make it but I think we both just weren't ready to do the work. reading this makes me think it can definitely work with the right timing and maturity
this thread is goals!! quick question - does this apply to friendships too or is it mainly a romance thing? my closest work friend is a cap and I'm a libra and I feel like we have this exact dynamic (I smooth things over, she keeps us on track) but I've never seen it described so well
@jen_1992 100% applies to friendships!! honestly I think the libra-cap dynamic works in any close relationship because it's really about complementary strengths not just romantic chemistry
your description sounds exactly like how me and my cap sister are lol. she's the one who makes sure we actually show up on time, I'm the one who remembers to thank the host
ok this thread just showed up exactly when I needed it lol
I'm a libra and my partner is a cap and we hit a really rough patch around month 4-5. I was ready to call it. the whole "you're too indecisive" vs "you're too rigid" thing was SO exhausting
but then we figured out that I actually love having structure once someone else sets it up... and he loves having options once someone presents them nicely. so now I basically help him see the full picture of a decision and he helps us actually make the decision
seeing 3 years and still growing gives me so much hope honestly. feels like the hardest part is just surviving that early adjustment period
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