so this just happened and I'm still processing lol. I'm a capricorn, he's a gemini, and honestly the first year was SO fun. never bored, always something new to talk about

but long term I needed more consistency than he could give and he needed more spontaneity than I could give. we just kept circling the same argument about plans changing last minute

not even mad about it tbh, just wish we'd talked about that mismatch way earlier instead of assuming it would sort itself out

any other capricorns dated a gemini and figured out how to make the pacing thing actually work? or is this just a fundamental incompatibility