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so this happened about a month ago and im still kind of processing it tbh
we were together almost two years. in the beginning he was SO fun, always down for something spontaneous, made me laugh constantly. but i needed depth and consistency at some point and he just... couldn't sit still long enough to go there with me? like every time i tried to talk about feelings he'd crack a joke or change the subject
i think i kept hoping he'd eventually meet me where i was at emotionally and he just never really did. or maybe couldn't idk
not trying to bash geminis at all, i actually think i learned a lot about myself from this. just wondering... any other cancers dated a gemini and felt this exact thing? is this a pattern or was it just him
omg yes. dated my gemini for a year and it was the same exact dynamic. the deflecting-with-jokes thing is SO real lol
not to generalize signs too hard but i've heard this from a few cancer friends now. we crave that emotional safety and some geminis genuinely struggle to sit in a heavy moment without lightening it
following this bc im currently dating a gemini and reading your post made me go... hm
update: talked to a couple friends about this and honestly it made me realize i also need to work on saying what i need out loud instead of just waiting for someone to intuit it. lesson learned even though it hurt
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