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my bf is a virgo sun and sometimes I wonder if he even likes me lol (im a pisces btw)
like he never says romantic stuff or buys me flowers or anything. but then he'll notice I'm stressed about something and just... handle it? like he fixed my laptop when it was slow, reorganized my whole closet because I mentioned I couldn't find anything, makes sure I eat when I forget
is this just how virgos show love?? through acts of service? bc I keep waiting for the grand romantic gestures but maybe I'm missing the point
omg YES this is so virgo!! my husband is the same way
it took me years to realize that when he researches the best tires for my car for 3 hours, that IS his love language. he's literally protecting me in his own way
virgo love is quiet and practical but SO consistent once you start noticing it
pisces here also dating a virgo and I felt this in my soul lol
the way mine shows love is by remembering every tiny thing I ever mentioned. like I said once that I liked a specific kind of tea and he bought me like 6 boxes of it. no announcement, just put it in the cabinet
they express love through paying attention
as a fellow water sign I totally get wanting more emotional expression but honestly? virgo love is the most reliable love imo
they might not write you poetry but they will drive 2 hours to pick you up when your car breaks down without complaining once
ok update: I started actually paying attention and wow
he noticed I was getting headaches from my old glasses prescription and booked me an eye appointment without me even mentioning it. then drove me there and waited the whole time
I think I was so focused on wanting flowers and love notes that I wasn't seeing how much he actually does for me every day. you guys were right - this IS love, just quieter than I expected
this thread is making me tear up a little ngl
my best friend is a virgo and she shows love the exact same way. remembers my coffee order, always has advil in her purse bc she knows I get headaches, texts me reminders for important stuff
earth signs just love differently and honestly? its the most dependable kind
the eye appointment thing is SO virgo lol. my best friend is a virgo and she once reorganized my entire pantry while I was venting about work stress. I was like... did you even hear me?? but later I realized she was listening the whole time, she just shows care through DOING stuff.
it took me forever to understand that actions ARE words for earth signs
cancer sun here and this thread is making me appreciate my virgo best friend so much more
she once noticed I was getting burned out and quietly started sending me links to "gentle productivity" stuff and articles about rest without ever making it feel like a criticism
that's love. it just doesn't look like flowers or big declarations. it looks like someone paying close attention and actually doing something with what they notice
ok that eye appointment story made me tear up a little?? like he just... noticed and handled it. that's so virgo it hurts
my ex was a virgo and I spent SO long feeling like something was missing bc he wasn't big on words or grand gestures. then one day I was venting about how stressed I was about my sister's wedding and I woke up the next morning to a whole google doc he made with a packing list, venue directions, timeline, everything
I literally cried. I was like oh. OHHHH. this is his love language
the tricky thing with pisces + virgo (which is actually a really common pairing btw) is that you speak totally different love languages by default and it can feel like a disconnect until you learn to read his version of it. but once you do... honestly one of the most devoted partners out there
I showed this thread to my virgo boyfriend and he read the whole thing start to finish
then just said 'well yeah' and went back to what he was doing
and then 10 minutes later made me a cup of tea without asking
I showed him this thread. he demonstrated the exact thing the thread describes. within the same conversation. I don't think he even realized it lol
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