This is such a classic Virgo-Sagittarius dynamic and honestly it comes down to understanding HOW Virgos process love.

Virgo is ruled by Mercury and is an earth sign — their way of showing care is by helping you avoid problems. When your friend points out flaws, she's not trying to rain on your parade, she's literally trying to protect you. That IS her excitement.

A few things that might help:

Tell her what kind of support you need upfront. Before sharing something, say "I just need to be hyped up right now, analysis later" — Virgos actually respect direct communication and will adjust.

Also, try asking for her critique intentionally sometimes. If she feels like her analytical nature has a place and is valued, she's less likely to default to it when you just want enthusiasm.

Sag + Virgo can be a really complementary friendship once you find the communication rhythm. You bring the vision, she spots the gaps. That's actually a powerful combo.