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ok so my bf is a virgo and I love him but omg the communication differences are killing me
I'm like BIG feelings, dramatic expressions, I want him to match my energy when I'm excited or upset. and he's just... so calm? and logical about everything?
like I'll be venting about work drama and he starts giving me solutions instead of just being like "wow that sucks babe"
or I'll be super excited about something and he's like "that's nice" with zero enthusiasm lol
any other leos dating virgos? how do you get on the same page communication-wise without losing your minds
omg YES I'm a leo with a virgo husband and the solution-giving thing drove me crazy at first
what finally worked for us was literally just telling him at the start "I just need to vent rn, I don't need solutions" and he was like "oh ok that makes sense" lol
virgos are so service-oriented, they genuinely think they're helping by fixing things. once my husband understood that listening IS helping me, everything changed
not a leo but aries here dating a virgo and SAME energy
the "that's nice" thing is so real lmao. I learned that virgos show excitement differently - like he'll actually remember what I told him and bring it up later or do something thoughtful about it. just not in the moment
still working on the emotional validation part tho ngl
leo/virgo couples are actually more common than you'd think! the fire + earth combo can be really grounding once you figure out each other's languages
my tip: when you want him to match your energy, try asking directly like "can you hype me up about this?" virgos are surprisingly good at stepping up when they know exactly what you need. they just don't always intuit it the way other fire signs would
sag here married to a virgo for 7 years lol trust me I FEEL this
the solution thing used to drive me crazy too. what worked for us was me literally saying "I need you to just listen rn, no fixing" before I vent. felt awkward at first but now he gets it
also! virgos show love through acts of service. so when he's trying to solve your problem, that's actually him saying he cares?? took me forever to see that
the calm thing... yeah that never changes lmao. but honestly now I kind of appreciate having someone grounded when I'm being extra
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