how do you even communicate with a virgo when youre a leo?

ok so my bf is a virgo and I love him but omg the communication differences are killing me

I'm like BIG feelings, dramatic expressions, I want him to match my energy when I'm excited or upset. and he's just... so calm? and logical about everything?

like I'll be venting about work drama and he starts giving me solutions instead of just being like "wow that sucks babe"

or I'll be super excited about something and he's like "that's nice" with zero enthusiasm lol

any other leos dating virgos? how do you get on the same page communication-wise without losing your minds