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ok I genuinely need help with this
I've been seeing this sagittarius guy for a few months and I feel like we speak completely different languages sometimes??
like when something bothers me I need to actually TALK about it, dig into it, understand what happened. and he just kind of... shrugs it off and changes the subject?? he says I'm "too intense" but I'm like, isn't this just a normal conversation
and then other times he'll say something super blunt that kind of stings and when I bring it up he acts confused about why I'm upset
idk if this is a us problem or a scorpio-sagittarius thing. anyone else deal with this?
omg this is literally me and my sag best friend lol. I finally just learned to say what I need upfront instead of hinting at it? like scorpios kind of expect people to pick up on the vibe and sags just... don't
once I started being direct it got SO much better
the "too intense" thing!! my ex sag said that to me too and it stung every time
I think it helps to give them a little space after a conflict before diving deep. they kind of need to decompress first and THEN they'll actually engage with you
following bc I'm a scorpio interested in a sag and this thread is giving me a lot to think about lol
the bluntness thing is real - I've read that sags just say what they think without realizing how it lands. not trying to be mean, just genuinely unfiltered
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