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ok so I've been friends with a Scorpio for a few years and I genuinely love her but sometimes the intensity just... hits different??
like I'll say something totally casual and she'll go quiet and I can FEEL the energy shift. no explanation, just vibes that something is wrong now
I've tried asking directly what's up and sometimes that makes it worse lol. other times she opens up and it's fine
I know scorpios are known for being intense but I'm starting to wonder if there's a trick to navigating it. anyone else deal with this?? what actually works
omg this is so my scorpio best friend too. I've learned to just... let the silence sit for a bit before pushing. if I immediately ask what's wrong it escalates but if I wait like 20 mins she usually comes around on her own
the thing I figured out is scorpios need to trust you before they'll explain themselves. like they're testing whether you'll stick around through the weird silence or bail. once I stopped taking it personally it got so much easier honestly
I'm a scorpio and yeah... we don't do it on purpose lol. it's more like we go internal to process stuff and forget that other people can't read our minds. just tell her "hey I noticed a shift, I'm here when you want to talk" and leave it alone. that works way better than pressing
ok the "I'm here when you want to talk" thing is so simple and I never thought of it that way. I've been treating it like a problem to solve instead of just... being patient. gonna try this, thank you all
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