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how dating a scorpio changed me as a libra

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sunflower_daysAuthor

ok so I've been with my scorpio boyfriend for almost 2 years now and honestly? I'm a completely different person

as a libra I used to be SO bad at making decisions. like literally couldn't pick a restaurant without agonizing over it for 20 min lol. I always wanted everyone to be happy and would just go along with whatever

my scorpio pushed me (gently but firmly) to actually have opinions and stick to them. he'd be like "no seriously what do YOU want" and wouldn't let me cop out with "whatever you want is fine"

also I used to avoid conflict like the plague. typical libra right? but he showed me that addressing things head-on actually leads to MORE peace in the long run, not less

I still love harmony and balance but now I know that sometimes you have to go through the uncomfortable stuff to get there

any other libras who've grown from being with a water sign? or scorpios who've helped their air sign partners?

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CosmicDreamer

omg yes!! my scorpio husband literally taught me it's ok to feel things deeply and not just intellectualize everything away

we libras can be so in our heads sometimes. having someone who lives in the emotional depths helped me access parts of myself I didn't even know were there

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stardust_leo

not a libra but my best friend is and she says the same thing about her scorpio wife. something about how scorpio intensity helps libra stop people pleasing

love to see water and air signs making it work

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NightOwl88

this is so relatable. I'm the scorpio in a libra-scorpio relationship and I think we help each other. my libra partner has taught me to lighten up and see multiple perspectives instead of just my intense one lol

it goes both ways when it works

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