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ok so I've been with my scorpio boyfriend for almost 2 years now and honestly? I'm a completely different person
as a libra I used to be SO bad at making decisions. like literally couldn't pick a restaurant without agonizing over it for 20 min lol. I always wanted everyone to be happy and would just go along with whatever
my scorpio pushed me (gently but firmly) to actually have opinions and stick to them. he'd be like "no seriously what do YOU want" and wouldn't let me cop out with "whatever you want is fine"
also I used to avoid conflict like the plague. typical libra right? but he showed me that addressing things head-on actually leads to MORE peace in the long run, not less
I still love harmony and balance but now I know that sometimes you have to go through the uncomfortable stuff to get there
any other libras who've grown from being with a water sign? or scorpios who've helped their air sign partners?
omg yes!! my scorpio husband literally taught me it's ok to feel things deeply and not just intellectualize everything away
we libras can be so in our heads sometimes. having someone who lives in the emotional depths helped me access parts of myself I didn't even know were there
not a libra but my best friend is and she says the same thing about her scorpio wife. something about how scorpio intensity helps libra stop people pleasing
love to see water and air signs making it work
this is so relatable. I'm the scorpio in a libra-scorpio relationship and I think we help each other. my libra partner has taught me to lighten up and see multiple perspectives instead of just my intense one lol
it goes both ways when it works
wow this thread blew up more than I expected!! thank you all so much for sharing
@NightOwl88 that's such a good point that it goes both ways. I've definitely noticed my bf has gotten better at not taking everything so intensely since we've been together. like he used to spiral over small conflicts but now he'll actually step back and be like "ok maybe I'm overreacting"
the libra-water sign combo really does seem to balance out in both directions when it works
libra sun here married to a cancer!
the water sign growth thing is SO real. before him I was basically allergic to my own emotions lol. I could intellectualize feelings all day but actually sitting with them? nope.
he taught me that it's ok to just... feel things without trying to analyze or fix them immediately. still working on it honestly but 4 years in and I'm way more emotionally present
the conflict thing you mentioned hits home too. I used to think being diplomatic meant never rocking the boat but now I see it more like... finding the best way to address things, not avoiding them entirely
omg this thread is everything. I'm a libra sun too and dated a scorpio for almost 2 years
at first I was so uncomfortable with how INTENSE everything was lol. like I just wanted to keep things light and they wanted to talk about our deepest fears at 2am
but honestly? it taught me that avoiding conflict doesn't actually keep the peace. sometimes you gotta go through the uncomfortable stuff to get to something real. still grateful for that relationship even tho it ended
scorpio here! love seeing this perspective from the other side
honestly we know we're a lot sometimes lol. but when a libra actually stays and meets us where we are instead of just smoothing things over... that's when the magic happens
you guys teach us that not everything needs to be a deep emotional excavation. sometimes things can just be nice and pretty and thats ok too
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