hardest part of taurus + aquarius relationship? need to vent

ok so I'm a taurus dating an aquarius for almost a year now and honestly some days I just... don't get them??

like I need consistency. I want to know what we're doing this weekend, I want our routines, I want to feel SECURE. and my aquarius is like "let's be spontaneous" or needs space out of nowhere or gets into some new obsession every other week

and I know they love me, they show it in their own way. but sometimes I feel like I'm asking for too much by wanting... idk, predictability?

what's the hardest thing you've dealt with in a taurus/aquarius pairing? am I being too stubborn about this lol

omg the spontaneity thing is SO real. my ex was an aquarius and I'm a taurus rising so I totally get it

the hardest part for us was emotional availability honestly. like I needed to TALK about feelings and they needed to think about feelings alone first? it felt like rejection even when it wasn't

taurus here married to an aquarius for 7 years!

the space thing was hard at first but what helped was realizing their need for independence isn't about us. like they come BACK every time, usually with some cool idea or excited about something.

we had to literally schedule "together time" and "alone time" which felt weird at first but honestly works so well now

aquarius here lurking lol. we really do love differently and I know it's confusing

for what it's worth when we pull away it's usually because we're processing something or recharging. nothing to do with you. the fact that you're asking this means you care which is sweet

wait this is actually making me feel so much better?? thank you all

maybe I need to stop taking the space thing personally. gonna try the scheduled time thing and see if that helps

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hardest part of taurus + aquarius relationship? need to vent

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