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so im a sag and just started seeing another sagittarius. we clicked instantly like scarily fast?? both adventurous, both hate being tied down, both always down for spontaneous road trips
but im lowkey worried. like two fire signs with commitment issues... what could go wrong lol
any sag + sag couples here? whats the hardest part? do you ever actually settle down or just keep chasing the next adventure together
oh girl the hardest part is NEITHER of you wants to be the responsible one lmao
my ex was a sag too and we'd make these grand plans but nobody wanted to handle the boring stuff. bills? who knows. planning ahead? absolutely not. it was fun until it wasnt
but if you can figure out how to take turns being the adult... its actually amazing
honestly the challenge for us was the brutal honesty thing
like sags are known for being blunt right? imagine TWO people who just say whatever with no filter. we hurt each other without meaning to constantly at first
had to learn that just because we CAN say something doesnt mean we should lol
been with my sag partner for 5 years now. the hardest part is definitely the competition thing?? like we both always want to be right and neither backs down
also we both get bored easily so keeping things fresh takes actual effort. but when it works its the most fun relationship ever tbh
following this bc same situation rn!! we literally met backpacking and now idk how to do normal life together lol
sag + sag here for 3 years now!
honestly the hardest part for us was learning to create stability WITHOUT feeling trapped. like we had to figure out what commitment looks like for two people who both value freedom above everything else
what worked: we stopped trying to fit into what a "normal" relationship looks like. we dont live together full time (he has his place, i have mine) but we're still totally committed. some people think thats weird but it works for us??
also pro tip - take separate vacations sometimes lol. sounds counterintuitive but coming back and having NEW stories to tell each other keeps things exciting
found this thread at the perfect time lol
the commitment thing is SO real. we both love the idea of being together but actually making plans? scheduling anything?? nightmare
we've literally had to start treating date night like an appointment or it just... doesn't happen. both of us are always like 'oh something came up' and then neither of us gets mad bc we both get it
ok but i need an update on this?? how are things going now?
i dated another sag for like 2 years and honestly the biggest thing was just... making sure we actually stayed home sometimes lol. we were always planning the next trip or adventure and never just chilling
but when it worked it really worked. nobody else got my need for freedom like he did
ok sag + sag here for a bit and honestly the hardest part for us was nobody wanted to be the "responsible one" lol
like we'd both be down to drop everything and drive 4 hours somewhere on a tuesday but then rent was due and we were both like... we'll figure it out??
but the settling down thing - I think it shifted when we stopped seeing it as "settling" and started thinking of it as choosing home base so we could adventure together more. like stability became a launchpad not a cage
still chaotic but in a good way
ok update from 'following bc same situation' - we're a few months in now and honestly the freedom thing is what makes it work??
neither of us feels trapped because we both value the same things. we have our adventures together and separate ones too. it's lowkey the least claustrophobic relationship I've ever been in
coming back bc people keep asking how it's going
still together! honestly the 'two adults who don't want to adult' problem is real but we just kind of figured out who handles what based on who cares more
like he handles anything involving scheduling because he hates being late more than I do. I handle anything creative or spontaneous bc he trusts my ideas
turns out two sags CAN settle down... we just can't do it the conventional way lol
omg this thread is exactly what i needed to find rn
im also a sag who dated another sag for about 8 months and honestly the hardest part wasn't the freedom thing like i expected. it was that we were BOTH too proud to be the one who initiated the serious conversations?? like two people equally terrified of vulnerability just... vibing on the surface forever lol
we worked through it eventually by basically making a game of it - whoever brought up the real talk topic first got to pick the next adventure. sounds silly but it worked for us!
the spontaneity was genuinely so fun though. i miss that part
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