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so im a sag and just started seeing another sagittarius. we clicked instantly like scarily fast?? both adventurous, both hate being tied down, both always down for spontaneous road trips
but im lowkey worried. like two fire signs with commitment issues... what could go wrong lol
any sag + sag couples here? whats the hardest part? do you ever actually settle down or just keep chasing the next adventure together
oh girl the hardest part is NEITHER of you wants to be the responsible one lmao
my ex was a sag too and we'd make these grand plans but nobody wanted to handle the boring stuff. bills? who knows. planning ahead? absolutely not. it was fun until it wasnt
but if you can figure out how to take turns being the adult... its actually amazing
honestly the challenge for us was the brutal honesty thing
like sags are known for being blunt right? imagine TWO people who just say whatever with no filter. we hurt each other without meaning to constantly at first
had to learn that just because we CAN say something doesnt mean we should lol
been with my sag partner for 5 years now. the hardest part is definitely the competition thing?? like we both always want to be right and neither backs down
also we both get bored easily so keeping things fresh takes actual effort. but when it works its the most fun relationship ever tbh
following this bc same situation rn!! we literally met backpacking and now idk how to do normal life together lol
sag + sag here for 3 years now!
honestly the hardest part for us was learning to create stability WITHOUT feeling trapped. like we had to figure out what commitment looks like for two people who both value freedom above everything else
what worked: we stopped trying to fit into what a "normal" relationship looks like. we dont live together full time (he has his place, i have mine) but we're still totally committed. some people think thats weird but it works for us??
also pro tip - take separate vacations sometimes lol. sounds counterintuitive but coming back and having NEW stories to tell each other keeps things exciting
found this thread at the perfect time lol
the commitment thing is SO real. we both love the idea of being together but actually making plans? scheduling anything?? nightmare
we've literally had to start treating date night like an appointment or it just... doesn't happen. both of us are always like 'oh something came up' and then neither of us gets mad bc we both get it
ok but i need an update on this?? how are things going now?
i dated another sag for like 2 years and honestly the biggest thing was just... making sure we actually stayed home sometimes lol. we were always planning the next trip or adventure and never just chilling
but when it worked it really worked. nobody else got my need for freedom like he did
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