hardest part of dating a virgo when you're an aquarius?
so I'm an aquarius and my partner is a virgo and I love them so much but sometimes we just... don't get each other at all
the hardest thing for me is how different we are about planning vs spontaneity. I'll want to drop everything and go on a random road trip and they're like "ok but we need to plan the route and book hotels and check the weather for the next 5 days"
and I KNOW they're being practical but sometimes it just kills the vibe?? like can we just BE for once
also the criticism thing... they say they're just trying to help but it feels like nothing I do is ever quite right
any other aquarius + virgo couples out there? what's the hardest part for you and how do you deal with it
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omg the planning thing is SO real. I'm a virgo dating an aquarius and from my side it's frustrating too lol like I just want to make sure we don't end up stranded somewhere with no plan??
but honestly we've gotten better at compromising. I try to go with the flow more and he gives me at least a few hours heads up before spontaneous adventures
the criticism thing is the #1 struggle in my relationship too. my virgo bf will be like "I noticed you forgot to lock the door again" and I'm like... ok? why are we tracking this lol
what helped us was me telling him that I need him to also tell me what I'm doing RIGHT. like balance it out a bit. he didn't even realize how much he was pointing out the negatives
honestly the emotional expression difference is the hardest for us. I'm aquarius and sometimes I need space to process and my virgo partner takes it personally. like they want to fix everything immediately and I'm like I don't even know what's wrong yet give me a minute lol
but also? when we finally DO connect it's really good. the challenge is worth it imo
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