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okay so my best friend is a sagittarius and im a cancer and most of the time its great but theres this ONE thing that gets me every time
shell say something so blunt it kind of stings and then five minutes later shes already moved on like nothing happened. meanwhile im replaying it in my head for three days lol
also the flaking?? shell be SO hyped about hanging out and then just... not show. not out of malice, she just gets restless and changes plans last minute
is this just a cancer + sagittarius thing or did i just get unlucky with this friendship. genuinely curious if other people go through this
omg yes the bluntness thing is so real. my sag bestie says stuff and then legit forgets she said it while im still stuck on it lol. i had to learn she doesnt mean it as harsh as it lands
the flaking is TOO real. my sagittarius friend once bailed on my birthday dinner bc she 'needed to drive somewhere.' we're good now but i had to tell her straight up it hurt my feelings, she genuinely didnt realize
honestly i think its a real clash but it can work?? my cancer/sag friendship has lasted like 10 years bc we both learned to just say things directly instead of assuming the other one knows how we feel
following this bc same situation lol. the blunt thing gets me every time but shes also the only one who tells me the truth when i need it so. tradeoffs i guess
update: talked to her about the flaking thing and she actually felt bad, didnt realize how much it was affecting me. we're doing better about communicating plans now
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