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3 months into dating a gemini (i'm scorpio) and honestly it's mostly great but there's this one recurring friction point
i want to go deep, talk about the actual feelings, sit in the intensity of a conversation. they want to talk about six different things in twenty minutes and then move on like nothing happened
it's not that they don't care, i genuinely don't think that's it. it just feels like we're operating on completely different frequencies sometimes
anyone else navigate this? did it get easier or is this just always going to be the thing we work around
yes!! my husband is gemini and it took me way too long to realize his "moving on quickly" wasn't him avoiding depth, it's just how his brain processes things. he circles back to stuff later when i least expect it
honestly as a fellow scorpio in a gemini relationship, the biggest shift for me was picking my depth conversations instead of expecting every conversation to go there. saved us both a lot of frustration
following bc I'm curious too, dating a gemini rn and definitely feel this. glad to know it's not just us
scorpio dating a gemini here and yeah, this is the whole relationship in a nutshell lol. what helped us was me picking one or two things a week to actually go deep on instead of expecting every single conversation to be intense
update: been trying the "pick my depth conversations" approach for a few weeks now and it's honestly made things so much easier. still adjusting but way less friction than before
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