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been seeing a virgo for a few months now (i'm a gemini) and overall it's really good but there's this one recurring friction point
i like to think out loud, throw out ideas, change my mind mid conversation. he wants me to have a plan before i even bring something up lol. he's not wrong that i'm scattered sometimes but it also feels like he wants me to pre-edit myself before i'm allowed to talk to him
anyone else in a gemini+virgo pairing figure out how to navigate this without either person feeling shut down or overwhelmed
yes!! my husband is virgo and i'm gemini, this was our biggest early friction point too. what helped was telling him upfront "i'm just thinking out loud rn, not asking you to solve it" - takes the pressure off both of us
honestly relate to this so hard as the virgo in a gemini pairing lol. it's not that i want you to pre-edit, i just get overwhelmed by too many open loops at once. a heads up like sparrow_lane said would help me a lot too
brambleknot honestly that's such a helpful perspective, i never thought about it as too many open loops for him. gonna try giving a little context before i ramble lol
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