been with my scorpio partner for about two years now and honestly it's mostly great but there's this one recurring friction point i can't quite name

i process things out loud, like i'll talk through a feeling three different ways before i land on what i actually think. my partner processes everything internally first and only shares once they've fully worked it out

so sometimes it looks like i'm "still confused" and they're "withholding" when really we're just doing the same work on different timelines

curious if other gemini-scorpio pairs deal with this. what's been the hardest part for you two to navigate