hardest part of a gemini + capricorn relationship? asking for a friend (its me)

been with my capricorn partner for like a year now (im a gemini) and overall its really good but there's this one recurring friction point I can't figure out how to solve

I process things out loud, like mid-thought, half-formed ideas just tumbling out. he needs to think everything through fully before he says a word. so when we're trying to make a decision together I feel like im talking to a wall for like 10 minutes and then he drops this fully formed opinion out of nowhere and its jarring lol

anyone else in a gemini/capricorn pairing? what's been the hardest part for you two and how do you work through it

capricorn here married to a gemini and THIS. the wall thing is so real from both sides honestly, to me it feels like im being bombarded with half thoughts before ive even processed the question lol

what helped us was I started saying "give me a minute, im thinking" out loud instead of just going silent, so she doesn't feel ignored while I work through it internally

gemini here and yes the waiting is SO hard for me lol. my capricorn ex used to just go quiet and id spiral thinking he was mad. turns out he was just... thinking. wish i knew that trick about saying "give me a minute" back then honestly

not dating one but my mom is a capricorn and I (gemini) drive her up the wall with this exact thing lol. she says I "think with my mouth" which. fair. we've gotten better about it as ive gotten older and learned to just ask her opinion and then actually wait instead of filling the silence

update: tried the "give me a minute im thinking" thing capricornandchill mentioned and told my partner about it, he loved having the words for it lol. already feels less like talking to a wall. thank you all!!

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hardest part of a gemini + capricorn relationship? asking for a friend (its me)

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