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been with my cancer partner for almost a year now (im a gemini) and things are genuinely good but there's this one recurring friction point
i process stuff out loud, like i need to talk it through immediately, and they need to retreat and feel things for a bit before they're ready to talk. so when we hit a disagreement i'm ready to hash it out in 10 minutes and they need like a day
is this just a gemini/cancer thing or is it more individual? curious if other pairs have this exact issue and how you handled it
omg yes this is so real. my cancer ex needed way more processing time than me and it used to drive me crazy until i just learned to give him the space
not the same signs but my partner is also a slow processor and i learned that pushing for the immediate conversation just makes it worse. giving them the day usually means a much better talk anyway
following this bc i'm the cancer in a gemini relationship lol. it really helps when my partner just says "take your time, i'm not going anywhere" instead of pushing
update: talked to my partner about this thread lol and we actually set up a little system now - if we disagree i get to say my initial thoughts once, then we take a break, then we come back to it. way less tension already
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