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been with my aquarius partner for about a year now (im a cancer) and honestly most of it is great but theres this one recurring thing
i need reassurance and closeness, like show me you care in the moment. he needs space to process and sometimes just straight up disappears into his own head for days
its not that he doesnt love me, i know that logically. but emotionally it feels like im chasing and hes retreating, especially when things get intense
for those in a cancer + aquarius pairing (or similar water + air combo), whats been the hardest part for you and how did you work through it?
omg the disappearing into his own head thing is so real. my aquarius ex used to go quiet for days and i took it so personally until i realized it was just how he processed, not rejection
water + air is such a specific push pull. you want closeness right when things get hard, they want distance right when things get hard. opposite instincts at the worst possible time lol
update: talked to him about it and he said the space thing is literally just his brain trying not to say something hed regret in the moment. we agreed on a check in text during his "quiet time" so i dont feel like im chasing
this is helpful, im a cancer dating an aquarius rising and didnt realize how much this pattern shows up even with just the rising sign
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