my best friend is a virgo and I'm a gemini and honestly our friendship works so well most of the time but every few months we hit this wall

she'll spend an hour planning something down to the minute and I'll show up 20 mins late having changed the plan in my head three times on the way there. she gets so tense about it and I get annoyed that she's annoyed lol

but then like... she's the one who actually remembers my dentist appointments and talks me down when I'm spiraling about fifteen different ideas at once. I genuinely don't think I'd function without her

anyone else have a gemini/virgo friendship? does the planner vs chaos thing ever stop being annoying or do you just learn to work around it