ok so I've pulled the hermit like twenty times in the last year, always upright, always this whole "go inward, take some space" vibe

but last night I did a solo reading about a friendship that's been kind of one-sided lately and the hermit came out REVERSED for the first time ever

my gut reaction was uh oh. like isolation, avoidance, loneliness... all the scary stuff

but then I started reading up on it and some sources say it's more about being pulled out of solitude before you're ready, or ignoring your own need for space? which is honestly kind of the opposite of what I expected

has anyone else had their "go-to" card flip on them like this. does reversed always mean the bad version or is it more nuanced than that