I love this question because advice position cards are meant to be a little uncomfortable - they're pointing at the thing you're avoiding, not handing you a script.

Temperance reversed as advice often means: stop trying to blend every option into one perfect middle ground. Sometimes the moderation itself is the excess. You may be over-mixing, overthinking, seeking a balance that doesn't exist yet because the decision genuinely requires a leap.

Ask yourself - am I using "weighing my options" as a socially acceptable way to stall?

oof the "balance itself might be the excess" line just wrecked me a little

I get temperance rx a lot when I'm trying to please everyone in a situation instead of just picking a lane. maybe that's part of it too?