dating another virgo as a virgo... anyone else?

so I (virgo sun) started seeing someone and found out he's also a virgo

on one hand we totally get each other?? like the need for routine, being organized, wanting things done a certain way. its kind of nice not having to explain myself

but also... we're both SO critical sometimes. of ourselves, of each other, of everything lol. like last week we spent 20 minutes debating the best way to load a dishwasher

any other virgo+virgo couples out there? does it get easier or are we doomed to critique each other forever

virgo married to a virgo here! 7 years and still going

the criticism thing is real but honestly once you both acknowledge it, it gets way better. we have this rule now where we check ourselves before "helpfully suggesting" something lol

the upsides are huge tho - we're always on the same page about cleanliness, finances, planning. never had a fight about dishes being left out

Virgo-Virgo is actually one of those pairings that works better than people expect. You share the same Mercury-ruled energy, which means communication styles align naturally.

The critical nature you're describing is classic Virgo - but here's the thing: you both understand WHY the other is being critical. Neither of you takes it as an attack because you'd do the same thing.

Look at your moon signs too. That's where the emotional compatibility really shows up. Two Virgos with compatible moons? That's a solid foundation.

omg the dishwasher debate is so virgo coded lmaooo

im a virgo dating a sag and honestly sometimes i wish he cared more about the details?? grass is always greener i guess

my parents are both virgos and they've been together 30+ years! they definitely bicker about small stuff but like... in a loving way? idk how to explain it

they just GET each other on a level that seems really deep

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