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ok so I've been seeing this aquarius guy for a few months and I genuinely cannot tell if we're the most compatible people alive or completely incompatible lol
like on one hand we have the BEST conversations. he'll just say something completely random and unexpected and I'm obsessed with it. we both hate being bored and there's never a dull moment
but then sometimes I want to just be spontaneous and go on an adventure and he wants to "think it through" first?? I'm a sag, I don't DO planning lol
also he goes kind of cold and distant sometimes and I never know if I did something or if he just needs space. as a sag I'm pretty open about how I feel so the whole detached thing throws me off
anyone else a sag who's dated an aquarius? how did you navigate the emotional difference?
omg yes!! I dated an aquarius for almost a year and the chemistry was incredible but the emotional availability thing was SO real. once I stopped taking the distance personally it got a lot better
This is actually a really well-matched pairing from an astrological standpoint. Both Sagittarius and Aquarius are freedom-loving signs - you're mutable fire, he's fixed air.
The "going cold" thing you're describing is classic Aquarius. They process emotions intellectually rather than feeling them out loud. It's not withdrawal from YOU specifically, it's just how they regulate.
The key tension here is mutable vs fixed energy. You adapt and pivot on the fly (classic Sag), he prefers to form a view and stick with it (fixed Aquarius). That's why he wants to "think it through" - once he commits to a plan, he follows through completely. Unpredictability feels destabilizing to fixed signs even when they love novelty.
The good news: Jupiter rules Sagittarius and Uranus rules Aquarius - both expansive, future-oriented planets. You share a genuine enthusiasm for ideas, growth, and freedom that a lot of other pairings just don't have.
wait the mutable vs fixed thing makes so much sense actually. my aquarius friend is the same way - incredibly open minded but weirdly stubborn about her routines
sag here who married an aquarius!! the emotional detachment thing genuinely gets better once they trust you fully. hang in there, the good parts are SO worth it
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