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ok so ive been seeing this aquarius guy for like 3 months now and I have SO many thoughts lol
the intellectual connection is honestly insane?? like we can talk for hours about the most random stuff and never get bored. first date was supposed to be coffee and turned into a 6 hour thing where we ended up walking around the city debating whether aliens exist
but here's the thing... the emotional availability is. something. like he'll be super present and engaged one day and then just disappear into his own world for a few days?? no texts no calls nothing. and as a libra I'm sitting here like did I do something wrong?? do you not like me anymore??
I know we're both air signs so theoretically we should be great together but idk. the hot and cold thing is throwing me off
any other libras dating aquarius people? does it get better or am I setting myself up here lol
libra sun married to an aquarius for 4 years!! yes the disappearing thing is SO real in the beginning lol
honestly what helped was just... not taking it personally? aquarius people need alone time to recharge and it has literally nothing to do with you. once I stopped reading into it everything got so much better
the intellectual connection you described tho? that never goes away. thats the foundation and its SO solid for us air signs
Great pairing actually! Looking at the fundamentals here - Libra and Aquarius are both air signs which gives you that natural mental rapport you're describing. The trine aspect between them is one of the most harmonious in the zodiac.
The hot/cold pattern you're noticing is very typical of Aquarius energy. They're ruled by Uranus which craves freedom and independence. It's not about you at all - it's baked into how they process the world.
My suggestion: instead of matching his energy or pulling away when he does, just stay steady. Libra's natural diplomacy is actually perfect for this. Let him have his space and he'll come back every time. The more secure he feels that you wont pressure him, the more he'll open up emotionally.
Also worth checking - do you know his moon sign? That'll tell you a lot about his emotional wiring underneath the aquarius exterior.
omg are you me?? im a libra dating an aquarius woman and its the EXACT same dynamic. the conversations are incredible but then she goes ghost for like 3 days and I spiral lmao
what helped me was just telling her straight up that I need a little more communication. she had no idea it was stressing me out and now she sends me a quick text even when she needs her space. libra directness for the win honestly
wait ok this is all so reassuring?? especially the part about not taking it personally. I think thats been my biggest issue honestly
and @MarcusAstro I just asked him and apparently hes a cancer moon?? which... explains some things actually lol. deep feelings under that detached exterior maybe?
going to try just being chill about the space thing and see what happens. thank you all sm
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