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ok so I've been seeing this Scorpio guy for about 4 months now and I genuinely don't know if I'm thriving or losing my mind lol
like as an Aries I'm used to everything being pretty direct. I say what I mean, I want answers fast, I move quickly. and this man is just... layers upon layers upon layers. asks me probing questions and then goes completely silent for two days??? and I'm over here spiraling
but here's the thing - when it's good it is SO good. the intensity is actually kind of addictive? idk how to explain it
anyone else dated a Scorpio as an Aries? how did you handle the pace difference
oh I felt this so hard!! dated a Scorpio for almost a year as an Aries. the silence thing is so real, they're processing, they just don't tell you that lol
what helped me was accepting that their pace is different, not wrong. once I stopped expecting Aries-speed responses I actually started to appreciate the depth they bring
This dynamic makes a lot of sense astrologically. Aries and Scorpio are both ruled by Mars - you share the same raw drive and passion underneath, but it expresses really differently.
Aries Mars is direct: wants it now, says it out loud. Scorpio Mars goes inward: strategizes, tests, sits with things before revealing them. When the Scorpio goes quiet, they're usually doing exactly what Mars does naturally - assessing the situation before making a move.
The intensity you're feeling? That's two Mars-ruled signs recognizing each other. The challenge is learning that his silence isn't withdrawal, it's just a different gear. Worth having a direct conversation about communication styles - he'll respect you for being upfront about it.
the intensity being addictive is the most accurate thing I've ever read about Aries/Scorpio 😭 my ex was a Scorpio and honestly that relationship taught me so much about slowing down and actually sitting with my feelings instead of just charging ahead
still one of the most growth-packed relationships I've had
ok this thread is making me feel so much better!! MarcusAstro the Mars thing actually clicked for me, I never thought about it that way
I had that direct conversation and he appreciated it way more than I expected. turns out the silence is literally him working stuff out internally. still adjusting but it feels less like a mystery now lol
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