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ok so I've been seeing this scorpio guy for about 2 months now and I honestly don't know what to make of it
like on one hand the connection is INTENSE. we can talk for hours and he gets me in ways other people don't?? but then he goes quiet for a day or two and my virgo brain is like analyzing everything I said lol
is this just how scorpios are? I've dated mostly other earth signs before so this water sign energy is new to me
any other virgos dating scorpios? how do you deal with the intensity without overthinking everything
omg virgo sun here dating a scorpio moon and YES to all of this
the overthinking is so real. I've learned to just ask him directly when he goes quiet bc 9 times out of 10 it's not about me at all. scorpios just need their alone time to process stuff
the intensity is worth it tho imo
Virgo-Scorpio is actually a really strong match that doesn't get enough credit. You're both analytical in your own ways - Virgo through logic, Scorpio through emotional depth. That creates a mutual respect once you understand each other's language.
The quiet periods you're noticing are classic Scorpio. They need space to process emotions internally before sharing. It's not about you - it's how they regulate. Your Virgo need for information can clash with this, so communicate early that you'd appreciate a simple 'I need some space' text rather than silence.
Both signs value loyalty and depth over surface-level connection. Give it time.
virgo here married to a scorpio for 5 years! it took me a while to understand that his silence doesn't mean anything is wrong
honestly once you crack the code with a scorpio the loyalty is unmatched. they're so protective once they're really in
thank you all this helps so much!! I think I just need to chill and stop reading into everything lol. the direct communication thing makes sense, I'll try that
not a virgo but my best friend is and she dated a scorpio for 3 years!
the quiet thing is SO real with scorpios. her guy would go mia for like a day and she'd spiral lol. eventually she just started texting him "hey thinking of you" when he went quiet and he'd always respond super sweet
i think earth signs need that reassurance and water signs process differently? like they're not mad they're just... in their feelings somewhere
hope it works out for you!
omg this is literally my life right now?? virgo here also dating a scorpio and the intensity is SO real
the quiet periods used to send me into full spiral mode. like i'd be mentally replaying the last three conversations trying to figure out what went wrong lol
what helped me was just... asking him directly. scorpios actually respect that more than you'd think. mine told me he just goes quiet to process stuff and it has nothing to do with me. kind of changed everything tbh
hey checking back in on this thread - @earthsign_gal how are things going? curious if the pattern has shifted at all
virgo-scorpio is honestly one of the more interesting pairings to watch develop. the initial friction usually smooths out once you both find a communication rhythm that works
omg @MarcusAstro yes!! things are actually going really well honestly
so I took the advice from this thread and just... stopped overanalyzing every little thing lol. like when he goes quiet I've been letting myself journal instead of spiraling
and we actually had a really good conversation about how we each handle conflict - he said he needs time to process before he can talk, which makes SO much sense now. my virgo brain was like oh ok that's just his data processing style haha
thanks everyone for this thread, it honestly helped so much
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