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ok so I've been seeing this scorpio guy for about 2 months now and I honestly don't know what to make of it
like on one hand the connection is INTENSE. we can talk for hours and he gets me in ways other people don't?? but then he goes quiet for a day or two and my virgo brain is like analyzing everything I said lol
is this just how scorpios are? I've dated mostly other earth signs before so this water sign energy is new to me
any other virgos dating scorpios? how do you deal with the intensity without overthinking everything
omg virgo sun here dating a scorpio moon and YES to all of this
the overthinking is so real. I've learned to just ask him directly when he goes quiet bc 9 times out of 10 it's not about me at all. scorpios just need their alone time to process stuff
the intensity is worth it tho imo
Virgo-Scorpio is actually a really strong match that doesn't get enough credit. You're both analytical in your own ways - Virgo through logic, Scorpio through emotional depth. That creates a mutual respect once you understand each other's language.
The quiet periods you're noticing are classic Scorpio. They need space to process emotions internally before sharing. It's not about you - it's how they regulate. Your Virgo need for information can clash with this, so communicate early that you'd appreciate a simple 'I need some space' text rather than silence.
Both signs value loyalty and depth over surface-level connection. Give it time.
virgo here married to a scorpio for 5 years! it took me a while to understand that his silence doesn't mean anything is wrong
honestly once you crack the code with a scorpio the loyalty is unmatched. they're so protective once they're really in
thank you all this helps so much!! I think I just need to chill and stop reading into everything lol. the direct communication thing makes sense, I'll try that
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