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ok so I'm a taurus and I've been seeing this scorpio for about 4 months now and idk how to explain it but it's like the most intense relationship I've ever been in
like on one hand it's incredible?? we have this insane magnetic pull, the connection feels really deep really fast. but on the other hand he can be SO secretive and it drives me up the wall
I like stability and honesty and he's just... mysterious about everything. even small stuff like where he's going or what he's thinking lol
anyone else a taurus who's dated a scorpio? how did you handle the push and pull of it all
omg yes!! dated a scorpio for two years as a taurus and the intensity is SO real. it's addictive honestly
the secretiveness got easier once I stopped trying to pull info out of him and just waited for him to open up on his own timeline. they share when they feel safe, not when you ask
Taurus-Scorpio is actually an opposition in the zodiac - you're literally across the wheel from each other. Opposites attract, but they also challenge.
What you're describing is textbook: Taurus craves security and transparency, Scorpio guards their inner world fiercely. The magnetic pull you feel comes from that tension - you each have what the other lacks.
The growth edge for Taurus in this dynamic is usually learning that depth and mystery aren't the same as dishonesty. For Scorpio, it's learning that vulnerability doesn't mean losing control.
Four months in is still early. These relationships tend to find their rhythm around 6-12 months if both people are willing to do the work.
the push and pull is the whole thing with scorpios lol. you'll never feel more seen and more confused at the same time
ok Marcus that actually makes so much sense. I think I have been reading his privacy as him hiding something when really it's just... how he operates
gonna try being more patient about it. thanks everyone this helped a lot
coming in late but I need to share - I'm a taurus who dated a scorpio for almost a year and the 'stop trying to pull info and wait for them to open up' advice is SO true
the moment I stopped treating his privacy as a problem to solve and just accepted it as part of how he operates, things got so much easier. he actually started sharing more because he didn't feel pressured
stumbled on this searching the same thing lol. taurus dating a scorpio here too and the 'wait for them to open up on their own timeline' advice is gold
I used to take the secrecy so personally and it just made him retreat more. backing off actually got me more honesty, not less
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