the "figure it out when we get there" thing made me laugh so hard because SAME. my sag ex said that about a road trip and we ended up sleeping in the car because everywhere was booked

but also some of my best memories are from his random ideas so... tradeoffs I guess?

following this bc I'm a sag dating a virgo and I need to understand how his brain works lol

wait you guys meal prep?? like for the whole week?? genuinely asking

omg found this thread while googling the exact same thing lol

im a virgo sun with a sag boyfriend and honestly the spontaneity thing is SO real. he'll be like "let's go on a road trip this weekend" and my brain is screaming about the laundry and meal prep i had planned

but also... he's helped me loosen up so much? like i actually enjoy not having every minute scheduled now. still working on it tho

update for anyone following this thread: we had a really good talk about our different planning styles and honestly just naming it helped so much?? like now when he wants to do something spontaneous he gives me a little heads up the day before (his version of planning lmao) and i try to say yes more often

still chaotic but in a good way i think. thanks everyone for the advice <3

omg the "day-before heads up" compromise is genius lol

my sag ex never got there tbh. constant last minute everything drove me crazy. but sounds like your guy is actually willing to meet you halfway which is huge

the spontaneity thing can actually be really good for us virgos tho? like I definitely needed someone to pull me out of my comfort zone sometimes. just... not EVERY time haha

the day-before heads up compromise is so cute honestly

and to answer moonlit_rose's question - yes virgos absolutely meal prep lol. my virgo friend has labeled containers and a whole rotation. it's impressive and slightly terrifying

glad it's working out! the chaos-meets-structure thing can actually be really good once you find your rhythm

virgo here just started dating a sag and this whole thread is my future

we're 6 weeks in and the spontaneity thing is already both amazing and slightly giving me anxiety

the 'day before heads up' compromise from earlier in the thread is definitely something I'm gonna suggest. like I don't need a detailed itinerary, I just need 24 hours warning lol

omg I found this thread and I needed it so bad lol

I dated a sag for almost two years and the "figure it out when we get there" thing was SO real. I genuinely could not comprehend how he functioned without a plan?? like how do you just... not know where you're sleeping

but honestly the day-before heads up thing is genius. we never thought to actually name what we needed, we just kept getting frustrated at each other

what ended up working for us was I handled the "logistics" (hotel, flights, anything with a deadline) and he handled the spontaneous stuff once we got there - restaurants, activities, detours. we both got to be ourselves and it actually made trips way more fun

how are things going with you two now? that update about him trying the calendar thing was so cute