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ok so I've been seeing this sag guy for about 3 months now and I'm... confused??
like he's so fun and spontaneous and makes me laugh constantly. but also he's late to EVERYTHING, never has a plan, and suggested we book a trip somewhere "and figure it out when we get there" ??? sir that is not how trips work
meanwhile I have a color-coded calendar and meal prep on sundays lol
I really like him but sometimes I feel like we're from different planets. any other virgos dated a sagittarius? does it get easier or am I just setting myself up for chaos
Looking at this pairing astrologically, you're dealing with a square aspect - signs that are 90 degrees apart. It creates tension but also attraction.
Virgo is mutable earth (practical, detail-oriented), Sag is mutable fire (adventurous, big-picture). You both adapt well, which helps! The friction usually comes from Virgo's need for order vs Sag's need for freedom.
The good news: mutable signs are flexible. You can absolutely make this work if you both lean into compromise rather than trying to change each other.
virgo sun here married to a sag for 6 years!!
it definitely takes adjustment. I had to learn that not everything needs a plan and he had to learn that some things absolutely DO need a plan lol. we meet in the middle now.
the spontaneity thing used to drive me crazy but honestly he's helped me loosen up so much. and he says I've helped him actually finish projects instead of starting 10 new ones
the "figure it out when we get there" thing made me laugh so hard because SAME. my sag ex said that about a road trip and we ended up sleeping in the car because everywhere was booked
but also some of my best memories are from his random ideas so... tradeoffs I guess?
following this bc I'm a sag dating a virgo and I need to understand how his brain works lol
wait you guys meal prep?? like for the whole week?? genuinely asking
omg found this thread while googling the exact same thing lol
im a virgo sun with a sag boyfriend and honestly the spontaneity thing is SO real. he'll be like "let's go on a road trip this weekend" and my brain is screaming about the laundry and meal prep i had planned
but also... he's helped me loosen up so much? like i actually enjoy not having every minute scheduled now. still working on it tho
update for anyone following this thread: we had a really good talk about our different planning styles and honestly just naming it helped so much?? like now when he wants to do something spontaneous he gives me a little heads up the day before (his version of planning lmao) and i try to say yes more often
still chaotic but in a good way i think. thanks everyone for the advice <3
omg the "day-before heads up" compromise is genius lol
my sag ex never got there tbh. constant last minute everything drove me crazy. but sounds like your guy is actually willing to meet you halfway which is huge
the spontaneity thing can actually be really good for us virgos tho? like I definitely needed someone to pull me out of my comfort zone sometimes. just... not EVERY time haha
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