Spiritual Community Forum
Connect with fellow seekers, share your experiences, and explore the mysteries of astrology, tarot, and numerology together.
Connect with fellow seekers, share your experiences, and explore the mysteries of astrology, tarot, and numerology together.
so I've been seeing this sag guy for about 3 months now and honestly it's like nothing I've ever experienced
he's so fun and spontaneous and makes me laugh constantly. but sometimes he's like... emotionally distant? not in a mean way just like he doesn't seem to need the same level of connection I do
I'm a pisces sun and I literally feel EVERYTHING so deeply. meanwhile he's off planning his next hiking trip lol
anyone else dated a sagittarius? does it get easier to understand each other or am I just setting myself up for heartbreak
pisces sun here too and I dated a sag for almost 2 years so I feel this in my soul lol
the emotional distance thing was the hardest part for me at first. like id be processing my feelings and he'd be like "lets go rock climbing!!" and I'm like sir I am having an emotional moment rn
but honestly? it does get easier. what helped us was me actually telling him directly when I needed emotional support instead of hoping he'd just sense it. sags aren't bad at feelings they just express them differently - through doing stuff together, planning adventures, showing up.
once I stopped expecting him to be a water sign and started appreciating how he showed love in his own way, things clicked so much more. 3 months is still early, give it time and communicate what you need
sag guy here if that helps at all lol
we're not emotionally distant on purpose I promise. its more like... we process things by moving and doing, not sitting and talking about feelings for hours. doesn't mean we don't feel them tho
my ex was a pisces and honestly the depth she brought to my life was incredible. she taught me to slow down and actually feel things instead of running from them. and I helped her be more spontaneous and stop overthinking everything
the hiking trips thing might actually be his way of including you in his world? like thats how sags say "I want you around." if he's inviting you along thats a really good sign
just be upfront about what you need. we respond way better to direct communication than hints
not in this exact combo but my best friend is a pisces-sag couple and they are honestly goals now. the first 6 months were rough tho she said the same things you're feeling
it really does balance out once you both learn each others language. hang in there!
You must be signed in to reply to this topic.
Sign In to Reply