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so I've been seeing this sag guy for about 3 months now and honestly it's like nothing I've ever experienced
he's so fun and spontaneous and makes me laugh constantly. but sometimes he's like... emotionally distant? not in a mean way just like he doesn't seem to need the same level of connection I do
I'm a pisces sun and I literally feel EVERYTHING so deeply. meanwhile he's off planning his next hiking trip lol
anyone else dated a sagittarius? does it get easier to understand each other or am I just setting myself up for heartbreak
pisces sun here too and I dated a sag for almost 2 years so I feel this in my soul lol
the emotional distance thing was the hardest part for me at first. like id be processing my feelings and he'd be like "lets go rock climbing!!" and I'm like sir I am having an emotional moment rn
but honestly? it does get easier. what helped us was me actually telling him directly when I needed emotional support instead of hoping he'd just sense it. sags aren't bad at feelings they just express them differently - through doing stuff together, planning adventures, showing up.
once I stopped expecting him to be a water sign and started appreciating how he showed love in his own way, things clicked so much more. 3 months is still early, give it time and communicate what you need
sag guy here if that helps at all lol
we're not emotionally distant on purpose I promise. its more like... we process things by moving and doing, not sitting and talking about feelings for hours. doesn't mean we don't feel them tho
my ex was a pisces and honestly the depth she brought to my life was incredible. she taught me to slow down and actually feel things instead of running from them. and I helped her be more spontaneous and stop overthinking everything
the hiking trips thing might actually be his way of including you in his world? like thats how sags say "I want you around." if he's inviting you along thats a really good sign
just be upfront about what you need. we respond way better to direct communication than hints
not in this exact combo but my best friend is a pisces-sag couple and they are honestly goals now. the first 6 months were rough tho she said the same things you're feeling
it really does balance out once you both learn each others language. hang in there!
omg this thread is so relatable I had to comment
I dated a sag for almost two years and the emotional mismatch is SO real. like I would want to process every little thing and he just... didn't? he wasn't cold about it, he just genuinely didn't need it the way I did
what helped me honestly was realizing we had totally different ways of showing we cared. he planned these little trips and adventures for us and that WAS his version of depth and connection, I just wasn't seeing it that way at first
onced I stopped expecting him to emote the same way I do and started appreciating how he actually showed up, things got so much better. still not easy but like... worth it
found this thread while googling at like midnight because I needed to know I wasn't alone lol
I'm a pisces and my girlfriend is a sag and the emotional distance thing is SO real. early on I used to take it personally, like why doesn't she need to talk through everything the way I do??
but honestly what helped me was realizing she shows care in completely different ways. like she'll randomly plan a whole day trip because she knows I've been stressed. that IS her version of emotional support
still learning to not need constant verbal reassurance but I think it's actually made me more secure in myself too
ok coming back to update this because I think about this thread a lot lol. things have actually been going really well - I stopped expecting him to process things the way I do and started just telling him straight up when I need to talk something through instead of hoping he'd notice. and honestly the adventures he plans really are his way of showing up, once I started seeing it that way I stopped feeling so alone in it. still learning each other but it feels a lot less like heartbreak waiting to happen now
reading this at the perfect time, I'm a few weeks into seeing a sag as a pisces and already noticing the same emotional pacing thing. good to know it's a whole pattern and not just my specific situation lol. following for more updates
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