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ok so I've been seeing a Pisces for about 4 months and I genuinely don't know what to make of it??
like on one hand it's the most romantic connection I've ever had. he just GETS the vibe, we can talk for hours about art and feelings and honestly it's dreamy
but then sometimes I feel like we're both floating in the same cloud and nobody is making actual decisions lol. I want to plan dates and he's like "whatever you want babe" and I'm like... I ALSO just want to go with the flow??
two people who can't decide on a restaurant is apparently very real
anyone else libra who's dated a pisces? how did you handle the whole ~neither of us wants to take the lead~ thing
omg yes the decision paralysis is SO real with this combo lmao
my pisces ex and I used to literally flip a coin for dinner because neither of us could commit to a choice
This is actually a fascinating pairing from an astrological standpoint. Libra is cardinal air - you want harmony AND you want to initiate it. Pisces is mutable water - they adapt and flow with whatever energy is present.
The challenge you're describing is classic: Libra waits for input to weigh, Pisces waits for someone to set the tone. When both partners do this, you get that sweet but directionless floating feeling.
What tends to work is leaning into your cardinal nature a little more. You actually LIKE planning when you reframe it as creating beautiful experiences rather than controlling the situation. Let yourself take the lead on logistics - your Pisces will genuinely love being taken care of that way.
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