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ok so I've been seeing a Pisces for about 4 months and I genuinely don't know what to make of it??
like on one hand it's the most romantic connection I've ever had. he just GETS the vibe, we can talk for hours about art and feelings and honestly it's dreamy
but then sometimes I feel like we're both floating in the same cloud and nobody is making actual decisions lol. I want to plan dates and he's like "whatever you want babe" and I'm like... I ALSO just want to go with the flow??
two people who can't decide on a restaurant is apparently very real
anyone else libra who's dated a pisces? how did you handle the whole ~neither of us wants to take the lead~ thing
omg yes the decision paralysis is SO real with this combo lmao
my pisces ex and I used to literally flip a coin for dinner because neither of us could commit to a choice
This is actually a fascinating pairing from an astrological standpoint. Libra is cardinal air - you want harmony AND you want to initiate it. Pisces is mutable water - they adapt and flow with whatever energy is present.
The challenge you're describing is classic: Libra waits for input to weigh, Pisces waits for someone to set the tone. When both partners do this, you get that sweet but directionless floating feeling.
What tends to work is leaning into your cardinal nature a little more. You actually LIKE planning when you reframe it as creating beautiful experiences rather than controlling the situation. Let yourself take the lead on logistics - your Pisces will genuinely love being taken care of that way.
omg as a pisces I can confirm - we genuinely don't have a preference lol. like when my libra partner just DECIDES "ok we're going here at 7" I feel so relieved??
we're not being difficult, we really just don't mind. but we also won't fill the vacuum if you don't. so someone has to lol
try picking the restaurant and framing it like "I really want to try this place" - we love doing things that make you happy. that might be your in!
glad this resonated! just wanted to add - it doesn't have to feel like you're "taking over" or being bossy. libra's cardinal energy is about initiating harmony, not dominating.
so think of it less as "I'm making all the decisions" and more like "I'm creating the conditions for us to enjoy each other." that framing might make it feel more natural to you.
how's it going since you first posted?
omg @MarcusAstro sorry for the late reply!! things are actually so much better
I took your advice and just started being the one to make plans and he genuinely seems so happy about it?? like piscesdreamer88 said he literally just goes with it and seems relieved that someone decided
we've been doing these little weekly "date planning" things where I pick the restaurant and activity and he picks the vibe (playlist, what we wear lol, the general energy) and it works perfectly
I think I was so worried about being too controlling that I overcorrected into no decisions at all. turns out we both needed me to just... own it a little
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