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ok so I've been seeing this capricorn for about 3 months now and I genuinely don't know what to make of it lol
like on one hand he's SO stable and grounded which I honestly need because I'm a complete mess sometimes. but on the other hand I feel like I'm always the one being emotionally open and he just... doesn't really do feelings??
we have really good conversations and he clearly cares about me but it's like pulling teeth to get him to talk about anything deep. I'll be over here crying about a movie and he's just looking at me like I'm from another planet
is this just a capricorn thing? are any other pisces out there dating caps? how do you make it work
omg yes!! I dated a cap for almost a year and this is SO accurate. the stability thing is real, like he always knew what to do in a crisis and I loved that
but yeah the emotional thing took a while. I found that they show love through actions not words - like he'd just quietly fix things for me without saying anything. once I learned to read that it helped a lot
This is actually a really fascinating pairing from an astrological perspective!
Capricorn and Pisces are sextile (60 degrees apart), which is generally considered a harmonious aspect. You're bringing emotional depth and intuition, they're bringing structure and follow-through. These qualities genuinely complement each other.
The emotional disconnect you're describing is classic Capricorn - they're Saturn-ruled, so they tend to process feelings internally and express care through practical action rather than emotional expression. It's not that they don't feel things, they just have a very different language for it.
The key with this pairing is usually finding a middle ground: you learn to appreciate their stability and actions as love, and they learn (slowly, patiently) to meet you a bit more in the emotional space. Worth sticking with if the foundation feels right.
the crying at movies thing made me laugh because same... my cap boyfriend just pats my shoulder and hands me tissues, he doesn't really get it but he shows up lol. honestly that's kind of enough for me
thank you all so much this is really helpful!! @MarcusAstro the sextile thing is interesting I didn't know that. I think you're right that he shows love through actions, he like... already knows my coffee order and always makes sure I get home safe. maybe I've been looking for the wrong signs
omg yes I dated a cap for two years and the emotional thing is SO real lol
but honestly what helped me was realizing he wasn't withholding feelings - he just genuinely processed everything internally and way slower than me. once I stopped expecting him to react the way I would, it got so much easier
also caps tend to show they care through doing stuff for you. like does he randomly fix things, plan ahead, remember small details about your life? that's his version of being emotionally open I think
pisces + capricorn is actually such an underrated pairing though?? I feel like people sleep on it
my best friend is a cap and even as friends I had to learn that she shows up for me in actions not words. once I figured that out I stopped feeling like she didn't care and started noticing all the little ways she does
idk maybe it's the same energy with your guy - the groundedness you love about him IS him being emotionally present, just in cap language
pisces here who dated a cap for almost two years and honestly this thread is making me nostalgic lol
the emotional openness thing is SO real. I used to feel like I was talking to a wall sometimes. but once I started paying attention to his ACTIONS instead of waiting for him to say the right words... everything clicked.
he would fix my car without being asked, remember my coffee order perfectly, show up with snacks when I was stressed. that WAS him being emotionally present, I just wasn't speaking his language yet.
we eventually didn't work out for unrelated reasons but I genuinely think I'm a better communicator now because of that relationship. pisces and caps really can teach each other so much
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