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I feel like I only ever see posts about aries + taurus being a nightmare so I wanted to share that it can actually work really well
I'm an aries, my partner is a taurus, and we've been together almost 3 years. yes we clashed SO hard at the beginning. I wanted spontaneity, they wanted a plan. I wanted to try 10 new things, they wanted to do the one thing they already knew was good.
but here's what changed everything: I stopped seeing their slowness as stubbornness and started seeing it as steadiness. and they stopped seeing my impulsiveness as recklessness and started seeing it as enthusiasm.
they ground me when I spiral into too many ideas. I push them to actually try things instead of just researching them forever lol
anyone else making aries + taurus work? what clicked for you?
ok this is so refreshing to read!! I'm a taurus and my aries ex never got that about me - the planning thing isn't fear it's just how I enjoy things
maybe it can work with the right person
This is such a good example of elemental balance working in practice rather than just in theory.
Aries is cardinal fire - initiating, impulsive, forward-moving. Taurus is fixed earth - stabilizing, patient, rooted. In traditional astrology these two square each other (90°) which creates tension, but tension isn't always bad.
The pairs that make it work usually have the Aries respecting that Taurus moves deliberately by choice, not by limitation. And the Taurus learning that Aries doesn't abandon things out of boredom - they're actually keeping the energy alive.
Sounds like you two have figured this out organically. That's the real compatibility.
"stopped seeing their slowness as stubbornness and started seeing it as steadiness" - I need to screenshot this and send it to my aries friend who's currently frustrated with her taurus boyfriend lol
this reframe is everything
@MarcusAstro the cardinal vs fixed thing is so accurate!! we still bump heads when I want to make fast decisions and they want to sit with it for a week lol but honestly I've made way fewer impulsive mistakes since being with them
@WillowBreeze please do send it!! I wish someone had told me this at the start
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