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ok so I've been dating another aquarius for almost a year now and honestly?? everyone I tell is like "oh no, two aquarians, that's a disaster waiting to happen"
but like... we actually work really well together?? I feel like the stereotype is that we're both too detached and commitment-phobic to make anything real
the things that supposedly make us "incompatible" are actually the things that make it good. we both need space, so neither of us feels smothered. we both have weird independent streaks, so we actually respect that about each other instead of fighting it
the only real challenge is when we both dig into our positions during a disagreement lol. two fixed signs = nobody wants to budge first
but honestly we've gotten better at that. we take space, think it through, come back calmer
anyone else in an aquarius + aquarius pairing? curious if the "incompatible" stereotype hit different for you
omg same!!! I was with an aquarius for two years and the "you're both too cold" thing drove me crazy
like yes we weren't glued at the hip but that was a feature not a bug lol
This is such a great observation and honestly it tracks astrologically.
The "two of the same sign" incompatibility idea is way oversimplified. What actually matters is whether two people can handle their shared shadow side - the part of their sign that needs the most growth.
For Aquarius, the shadow is emotional detachment and the tendency to intellectualize feelings instead of actually sitting with them. Two Aquarians CAN struggle with this... OR they can recognize it in each other and be incredibly patient about it because they GET it from the inside.
Fixed sign standoffs are real though - when two Aquarians dig in, nobody wants to move first. But Aquarius is also one of the most rational signs, so when you both cool down and come back to the table, you can usually reason your way through it.
The compatibility question is less about your sun signs and more about where your moons and rising signs land. Two Aquarius suns with compatible moons? Actually quite harmonious.
the fixed sign standoff thing is SO real lmao
my aquarius partner and I had this one argument that just... paused for like 3 days while we both went off and did our own thing
then we came back and sorted it out in like 20 minutes. idk if that's healthy or just our thing but it works
the moon sign thing is interesting! my partner and I have never compared full charts
might be time to actually look into that. thanks for the insight everyone, glad I'm not the only one who pushed back on the stereotype
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