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ok so im an aquarius sun and I keep seeing this everywhere online - that we're cold, unemotional, robot people who dont care about anyone
and like... that's not me at all?? I literally cry at commercials. I stay up late worrying about my friends when they're going through stuff. I once drove 3 hours to help my sister move because she sounded stressed on the phone
but apparently im "emotionally unavailable" because I need alone time and I process things internally before talking about them lol
idk I think people confuse not being performative with not caring. like just because I dont post about my feelings 24/7 doesnt mean I dont have them
any other aquarius people feel this way? or people who are close to an aquarius - do you actually think we're detached?
my best friend is an aquarius and honestly she is the most caring person I know?? she just shows it differently
like she wont sit there and cry with you but she WILL research solutions to your problem at 2am and send you a whole plan the next morning. thats love imo
aquarius here too and THANK YOU for this thread lol
I think the detached thing comes from us needing to step back and think before we react. my ex used to get so frustrated because when we argued I'd go quiet instead of yelling back. but I wasnt being cold - I was trying not to say something I'd regret
apparently that makes us robots tho
honestly I think every sign has a stereotype that's like... 10% accurate and 90% internet memes at this point
aquarius gets "detached" the same way gemini gets "two-faced" and scorpio gets "psycho". it's one trait blown way out of proportion
also worth looking at your whole chart not just sun sign. my aquarius friend has a cancer moon and she's the most emotionally intuitive person I know
wait this is so real. im a leo dating an aquarius and at first I thought he didnt care because he wasnt as expressive as me
but then I realized he shows love through acts of service and problem solving?? like he fixed my bike without me even asking, remembered every little thing I mentioned wanting, checks in on me when im quiet
once I stopped expecting him to express love MY way I saw how much he actually does care. just looks different
omg this thread is making me emotional (see!! not a robot!!)
seriously tho the point about showing love differently really hits. I think we just need people to meet us where we are instead of expecting us to be water signs lol. thank you all for this
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