ugh this is so relatable. I got a reversed ace of pentacles as advice once and I spiraled trying to figure out if it meant stop or just be careful

honestly I eventually landed on: it's not a no, it's a "not yet the way you're planning to"

Oh the advice position with a reversal is such a rich thing to sit with!

Ace of Wands reversed as advice isn't saying "don't do this" - it's asking you to look at what's blocking the spark. Is it fear? Perfectionism? Waiting for conditions to be perfect before you begin?

The cards whisper: the fire is there, it just needs clearing. What would you do if you weren't waiting to feel "ready"? That's your real advice.

Trust your inner knowing on this one - you already know the answer.