ok so my taurus husband and i just hit 7 years and i've been thinking a lot about how far we've come

as an aries i used to get so frustrated. like i'd want to make a decision NOW and he'd want to... think about it. for days. sometimes weeks. i genuinely thought something was wrong with him lol

but here's what i've figured out after all these years:

his slowness isn't stubbornness (ok sometimes it is lol) - it's actually him being really careful about things that matter. and when he commits to something, he actually DOES it. i've learned more about follow-through from watching him than from anything else

the flip side is he's taught me that my "urgent" things are usually not that urgent. half the time when i want to act immediately, waiting a week doesn't actually hurt anything. i've stopped starting as many fires that i then have to put out

we still clash when i want spontaneity and he wants the plan. but we've got this thing now where i get to be the dreamer and he's the one who makes the dream actually happen. it works so much better than fighting over who's right

anyway. if you're an aries with a taurus partner and you're in the early frustrated stage - it gets better. you just have to stop trying to make them an aries